In Islam, marriage is a relationship that carries rights, responsibilities and a commitment to kindness. The Quran offers guidance that can help spouses build a home based on faith, tranquillity, affection and mercy.
1. Marriage and Tranquillity
In Surah Ar-Rum, verse 21, the Quran describes Allah’s sign in creating spouses so that people may find tranquillity in one another, and placing affection and mercy between them.
Reference: Quran 30:21.
This verse highlights the importance of emotional wellbeing, care and companionship in marriage.
2. Treat Your Spouse with Kindness
Surah An-Nisa, verse 19, instructs believers to live with their wives in kindness. Kindness is reflected in respectful speech, consideration, fairness and avoiding humiliation or cruelty.
Reference: Quran 4:19.
3. Marriage Involves Mutual Care
Surah Al-Baqarah, verse 187, uses the metaphor of spouses being garments for one another. This beautiful description is commonly understood as reflecting closeness, protection and mutual care.
Reference: Quran 2:187.
4. Practical Ways to Build a Peaceful Marriage
- Listen to each other without immediately judging.
- Discuss concerns honestly and respectfully.
- Share responsibilities fairly according to your circumstances.
- Protect each other’s privacy and dignity.
- Show appreciation through words and everyday actions.
- Seek fair mediation or qualified support when problems become difficult.
5. Make Dua for Goodness in Family Life
Surah Al-Furqan, verse 74, teaches believers to ask Allah for spouses and offspring who bring comfort to their eyes and to become examples for the righteous.
Reference: Quran 25:74.
An Important Reminder
A peaceful marriage requires the willing participation and respect of both individuals. No dua should be presented as a guarantee that a particular person will marry someone or change their feelings. Where there is abuse, coercion or danger, safety and appropriate support must come first.
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Read our Duas for Marriage and Husband and Wife Guidance resources.